How can you strengthen the values of other people

Posted in: Leadership.

Yesterday I flew American Airlines in an exit row.  The hostess stopped at our row, gave us a sweet smile and without drawing breath gave us her learnt speech about whether we were all aware of the responsibilities of sitting in this row.  Without pausing to hear our answers, she moved on to repeat the execise at the next exit row.  She did not reappear.  After she left, I realized I did not have my seat belt fastened, and my neighbor was listening to music on his headphones.  This woman was not motivated by a deeply held value of safety, she was following a procedure.  A person who cared about safety would have noticed my unfastened seatbelt and asked me to do it up.

It is impossible to build a great culture through procedures alone.  People have to hold values deeply enough that they will act on them even when there is not a procedure.  It how someone acts in those spontaneous moments that allows you to see how deeply held their values are.  If you care enough about customers to select ‘care for customers’ as one of your values, you want your people to hold that value deeply enough that they will choose the most caring option at all times, even when there is no prepared procedure.

Do you have any friends who work for one of the big mining or oil companies?  I do, and they are obsessed with safety.  I can be with them on the weekend about to set out for a drive, and they will point out something dangerous about the driving conditions.  They have safety embedded as a deeply held value and they learned this at work.

I have seen people’s values strengthen as a result of steady efforts by their organization’s leaders to achieve this.  The work follows the lines I covered in recent posts:

  • Find the employees who already hold the values very strongly
  • Put them in positions and in situations where others experience how they think and act
  • Recognize values led decisions whenever they occur, especially if they involved some short term sacrifice
  • Tell stories continuously about heroic values led actions you have seen
  • Ask for frequent feedback about your own behavior

Strengthening an individual’s values takes time – there is often a lifetime of carelessness or unconscious behaviour.  To really get serious about values requires being conscious, awake and alert.  That’s why doing it together with others makes such a difference.

Showing my bias now, I do find that type of behavior at British Airways and at Qantas, with whom I also fly.  I believe they have done many years of training on safety, and have reached the stage where their employees live safety, beyond the script they are expected to follow.  That’s the difference.

4 Responses

  1. Eunapio Torres says:

    Hi Carolyn!Thanks for your blog. You are always a source of insights and inspiration.A great book on sense of purpose is "The orange code-How ING Direct succeeded by Being a Rebel with a Cause". Have you read it? If not, put in your list for those long flights you take… I am sure you will enjoy it.Saludos

  2. Liana Di Stefano says:

    Speaking of Airlines, I just flew Virgin Blue to Brisbane. On the way up the guy making the announcements was witty, funny and very friendly. I have experienced this before when flying with Virgin and have heard similar from others – so you begin to expect it right?…On my return flight, the plane was running late (as was the departure flight- not good). The announcement that came over the speaker at the terminal gate told us that we were to all stay by the gate because if we didn't all board quickly we would not make the curfew in Sydney and we would be stuck in Sydney – So the message they conveyed was that suddenly it is had become our fault. Ok, get on board – the next lot of announcements had none of the wit, humour or warmth we had come to expect. They were clearly under pressure and that is understandable. As you say Carolyn, the challenge with any organisation is consistency of message. If you are going to espouse fun, playfulness/warmth as one of your brand/company values, people notice when it's not. And while, people will excuse and understand the times of high pressure, if there is too much of it – people/I become cynical. How about placing a value on being on time?Great blog Carolyn!

  3. Carolyn Taylor says:

    Hi Eunapio.Thank you for your support. You have been a source of insight for me too!I have not read that book so I will order it. I just ordered a Kindle from Amazon, so perhaps I will make it my first Kindle-book. That is going to give a whole new approach to reading on long flights.Que vayas bienCarolyn

  4. Carolyn Taylor says:

    Great example Liana of how when you turn the dial up on the talk, expectations of the walk get higher. And you and I are both blogging now about walking:-)

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